Abuse, Rape and Peer Pressure are two interactive cycles. Both normally begin with the person having gone through very difficult lives and have been abused, neglected or pressured themselves. And after a while they feel the subconscious instinct to take back what was taken from them, gain control over others and themselves, or are just wanting to be accepted (depending on the situation). The victim becomes the purpotrater if this cycle is not interrupted.
one important thing to remember is that these things actually happen more often for men than women, but is less reported. and even more than that, is that the victims and purpotraters are of the same sex. keep this in mind.
Ask a Question and I will answer. For this i have many friends and family to help out with such things and if you do not feel comfortable with your Question being posted, i will send a private e-mail with my advice.
IF YOU ARE BEING ABUSED, RAPED, MOLESTED OR IN ANY OTHER WAY ASSULTED I ADVISE HERE AND NOW TO CALL ONE OF THESE HOTLINES
National Domestic Abuse- 1−800−799−SAFE(7233)
Abuse Victim Hotline(scroll to the bottom for a confidential IM chat service)-http://www.avhotline.org/
National Youth Crisis Hotline-1-800-HIT-HOME (1-800-448-4663
Child Abuse National Hotline- 1-800-252-2873, 1-800-25ABUSE
Rape Crisis 1.800.656.HOPE (4673)
for Men's assault Hotline's go to this link for regional numbers - http://www.xris.com/survivor/msa/hotlines.html
For Gay/Lezbian assult (as some feel uncomfortable with a regular hotline)-1.800.THE.GLNH (843.4564)
